Thursday, 26 July 2018

To My Single Babes & Bobos


To My Single Babes & Bobos

I love her so much,
I care for her,
Ask her,
I always do things that make her happy.
I might even marry her one day!
That is good!
No Sis, I have an issue though:

Oh, what is it?
Since, we know we will marry ourselves one day,
Why can’t she have sex with me?
After all, she told me she isn’t a virgin.

She is a child of God,
And she knows how much sex before and outside marriage displeases HIM.
She also knows her worth and value NOW,

Having sex is like giving a part of you out,
If you give yourself to every guy who comes to your life,
What will your husband eventually hold on to?

What if you get pregnant (Are you ready for a baby?)
What about contacting sexually transmitted disease.
Living with sexual guilt can be debilitating.

Shine your eyes wella.  (Love’s blindness has been cured tipetipe o)
Sex is responsibility,
Sex is holy ONLY in marriage
Instead of spending your emotional energy while you are single on wishing you could have sex now,
Why not start working towards serving God more and
Preparing yourself to be a great marriage partner to whoever you marry in the future?

Guys, if you love her,
Then wait!
Get married to her,
Then enjoy your sexual life together with her forever!

BE WISE!
NO MATTER WHAT YOUR SEXUAL PAST IS,
YOU CAN REFUTE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE.


I Love You!

My Thursday Musings
Olukemi Gbenga-Dada
©2018

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