Engaged?

Engaged?

Congratulations!

This is a more intentional season of your life!

Not a time to show off,

But a time to learn more.

A time to Share your vision and purpose together,

A time to know and discuss some salient issues

Part of which are:

• Your relationships with God
• How, what and when to pray for and with each other!
• How to create boundaries to avoid sexual sin
• Past Baggage and how to deal with them
• Who your marriage counsellor/mentor should be
• Books to read and deliberate on
• How you can bring out the Best in Each Other
• Sources of Conflict in marriage and how to resolve them
• Talk about financial accountability- Get to know the spender and the saver between you.
• Family and friends (YES! This is so important)
• Talk about sex (I advise you start this when your wedding is close-by, to avoid doing what you are talking about. Lol)
• Talk about anything and everything!
• Prepare for your wedding

AND

HEY BABE!

IF A GUY DON GIVE YOU ENGAGEMENT RING FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS AND E NO TALK ABOUT MARRIAGE,

Haaa! Call a solemn assembly with him, IF HE DOESN’T HAVE A DATE AFTER THIS,

ABEG, RETURN THE RING; YOU NO BE LORD OF THE RINGS O!

  

I Love You!

My Thursday Musings

Olukemi Gbenga-Dada

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