Thursday, 25 July 2019

Do not Judge!

Do not judge others!
Everyone has their own stories that made them who and what they are.
Not every matured single has a terrible past,
Not every woman without a child has done abortion
Not all terribly behaving kids have poor upbringing
Not every divorce is a woman’s fault.
Not every abuse is from a man.
Not every poor person plans to be poor.
Not every drop-out feels good about it.
Not everyone who fails set out for failure.
Your issues are up on your face yourself, so, face them!
Learn to allow people carry their cross with ease.
Many times, we don’t even have as much information about others problems and worries before we judge them.
We are all different and unperfect, so learn to do unto others as you would have them do to you.
Judging others hurt them and make them feel worse about you.
Respect and tolerance defines you and your attitude to others
Become less judgemental:
*Focus on your life
*Put yourself in other's shoes
*Stop judging yourself (it helps you accept others more)
*Monitor your thoughts
*Accept others character and lifestyles differences
*Be careful with your words and actions.
*Avoid stereotyping

You can easily judge the character of others by how well they treat those who do nothing to them or for them. -Malcolm Forbes

"Judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you- Holy Bible [Matthew 7:1-2]

I Love you!
My Thursday Musings
Olukemi Gbenga-Dada
©2019



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